THRIVE LIKE THEO
Theo’s story
Theo Kramer was a kid who marveled at the moon, danced with zero inhibitions, and knew the names of every truck in existence. He ran fast, felt deeply, laughed loudly, and had a big, confident voice that carried across any space he was in. He was effervescent and magnetic; to know Theo was to love him.
On February 1, 2023, at only 3 years old, he was diagnosed with an aggressive inoperable brain tumor called Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (DIPG). In the blink of an eye, we were told we had less than a year left with our son.
Within days of diagnosis, Theo lost the ability to walk, talk and swallow, and was in critical condition. Over the next 9 months, we fought the battle of our lives, pursuing every treatment option under the sun to bring our son back, restore his quality of life, and try, against all odds, to save him. With radiation, alternative therapies, and cutting-edge drugs still in trial, Theo’s tumor shrunk significantly and he slowly began to improve – regaining control of his body, his ability to speak, and eventually, his ability to walk. The 9 months of his illness were filled with magical experiences and heartbreaking setbacks, trips around California and trips to the hospital, deep joy and deep pain. Each day felt achingly precious. Every hour carried infinite weight.
On October 30, 2023, the day of his fourth birthday, Theo unexpectedly suffered a massive brain bleed from his growing tumor and lost consciousness for the last time. He died peacefully and free of pain, surrounded by the people who loved him most.
We all want our children to lead big lives, to make a difference in the world. Theo’s life was not long, but it was wide, somehow reaching people all across the globe. We may never be able to make sense of his death, but we’re determined to make meaning from it.
Determined to create a legacy for him that changes the world.
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TO HELP FIND A CURE FOR DIPG
We are honored to partner with ChadTough Defeat DIPG in hopes that one day in the future, children facing this horrific illness will not be handed a death sentence, but rather, hope and the chance for a future.
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LISTEN TO THE POD
Losing a child is a horrific experience unlike any other; if you're looking for understanding, resources and community, you've come to the right place.
Join Allie Kramer, Theo’s mom, as she sets out to rebuild her life after the loss of her son. Featuring conversations with experts in grief, trauma, medicine, and of course, other bereaved parents, the show is set for release in February of 2025.
In the meantime, trailer is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
Buy a tee
Our friends at We Got This made a special T-shirt in Theo’s honor! All proceeds benefit WeGotThis.org, a fantastic cancer nonprofit that gave us invaluable help during Theo’s illness.